Hi everyone,Good moring,hope you all are having a good Sunday.I just wanted to come by to let you al know,I am almost done writting my Mom the letter.I have never felt this feeling of knowing I actullay want to quit my job,could it be just a fase I am going through?Or do I really want this?I belive yes,I do want this.I actullay cryed this moring about it all.I relize if this is what I want to do,whih it is,its not the end of the world.I rather be missrable and sad at home,than at work,I know that doesnt sound right,but it does to me.I have never felt more than anything in this world that I want to quit.I would today.Tears just keep flowing down my face.If Mom tells me,its my own mind to doo what makes me happy,than I will put in my 2 weeks notice and make sure I get my money back.I just cant belive,after so many years of working,that I am not happy.After Mom reads the letter,I will let Gary read it and I will tell you all what it says.Even thoe it is kinda long.LOL.Do you all think its good that I am writting Mom a letter?Do you all think I would be happy if I quit my job?What I am really trying to say is,do you think I am making the right choise?Be back later.Peaceout.I just dont want to go and do anyhting drastic,when my emtions are all over the place,but,I do know how I feel about my job.Thanks for listning.
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A~ I don't think you realize this but all government programs have rules... You cannot get unemployment if you quit your job. Also, if you have a job but decide to quit, social security will question it, big time. If you cannot prove that you are unable to work, you will not be able to receive social security benefits... Quitting your job may make you more miserable than sacrificing to keep the job. Maybe you just need to change to a different kind of job. What is your background? What are your skills? What skills can you take to another job?
ReplyDeleteDear Amanda,
ReplyDeleteI think it is a good thing to write your mom how you are feeling. Hopefully, your family will be able to help you sort things out and what's best for you.
I think each of us have gone thru times where we wish we could just quit, but there are bills to pay and people counting on us. Only you can decide what is the best course of action for you. What might work for me, may not work for you.
And, the only thing I would say is when making your decision - try not to do it based on emotions. Emotions will mess you up every time! God Bless.
There is nothing I can add to what Wini and Lynne have said to you. If you have responsibilities that require a paycheck, don't quit. If you are disabled and unable to work, get a doctor to say so and file for Social Security benefits.
ReplyDeleteGood luck, Joyce
hey sweetie!
ReplyDeleteso sorry you are having those feelings right now. feelings can lie to us sometime. you are smart to question if you should listen to these feelings.
I think it is great that you can talk to your mom. how wonderful for both of you.
You know i wish for the best for you, God Bless dear! jun
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ReplyDeleteYou may want to consider what Winivere said at the top. She does have a good point. At least make sure you have SOMETHING before you quit. *M*
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winivere is right!
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